Loving Arizona and Missing Hawaii

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

a dear friend, an amazing example...

We had the privilege of spending some time with our dear friends, the Glausers, this past August while we were on vacation in California. I love that we have a timeless friendship. Each time we get together with them, it feels as though no time has passed. And although it has been 2 months now since we saw them, Meli's words still ring loud in my mind...

Meli is an amazing woman... she is a wife and a mother, a daughter and a sister, and most dearly to me, she is my friend. As we talked about our children and how quickly they are learning and growing up, the conversation topic of preschool came up. We talked a little about the types of things children learn in preschool, and I told Meli about the preschool curriculum that I had written for Catherine. The next thing Meli shared with me will stay with me forever.

She expressed that although she agrees that reading and writing and arithmetic are important for children to learn... eventually they DO learn those things, whether at home or at school. She would rather spend her time teaching her son values such as kindness, love, compassion and honesty... to give him a solid and sure foundation before he is off to school, out "in the world" and bombarded on every hand with the lies and deceptions of the world.

Thank you, Meli. Thank you for reminding me why we are here on this earth and what is most important to learn. Thank you for reminding me how we as mothers have the greatest opportunity and responsibility while our children CAN be at home all day with us, if we so choose, to teach them eternal principles and truths.

4 comments:

Noelle said...

I'm so jealous you got to hang out with the Glausers and the Glausers were able to hang out with you! Meli is such a great person. Thanks for sharing her words of wisdom!

Janelle said...

thank you for sharing your thoughts melanie. Love you!

Matti said...

Thanks for posting this. Lately (From time to time) things have been crazy here at home, and I sometimes wonder, "why don't I send Eden to school? all my friends are sending their kids, and I need a break." Now, I remember why I haven't. Thank you and thanks Meli too.

Carrie said...

Beautiful. Thanks for sharing!